FAQs

Why should I try GayMatchmake?

You may be turned off from the misleading - and very public - hamster wheel of online dating, or you’re just tired of how much time it takes to go nowhere. You may be too busy to meet new people outside your regular social circle, or you just don’t want to date any of them. You might be sort of “choosy” and haven’t been meeting other quality, long-term oriented people. Our private, exclusive and personalized approach is great for single gay men who don’t have the time or inclination to do all of the screening, searching, and planning that we can more easily do for them!

How does GayMatchmake work?

We scour everywhere from your neighborhood to the globe to find and screen eligible, quality matches for our clients. Our matchmakers use intuition handpicking each candidate looking for “VIP” compatibility factors: interests, shared values, preferences, and interests. We are available to discuss each candidate with you. These conversations are designed to ban first-date butterflies and encourage connection. We also provide useful feedback from both parties. This helps refine our proves and recalibrate for the next match.

What’s included in my matchmaking package?

If you are enrolled as a new client, your experience formally begins when you connect with your personal matchmaker. Your personal matchmaker will discuss your dating history as well as identify your top priorities, goals, and preferences. This will be used to move into the search and screening process for your first candidate. While you’re busy doing what you do best, your personal matchmaker will be busy behind the scenes screening potential matches. When a candidate has been selected for you, we will provide you with their client resume. When we have a mutual match, we will discuss the candidate with you and will provide you with their contact information. Afterward, we’ll get feedback from each of you to clear up those “What did he really think of me?” ambiguities. This also helps us refine our search going forward. It’s a simple process that we repeat until you’re interested in pursuing a relationship with one of your candidates. You will also have access to the Smart Gay Dating date coaching system to attract and retain your ideal long term romantic partner.

How do I become a GayMatchmake client?

We have a selection process for new clients that begins with a limited time only - free screening call. Please submit the form on this page to get started.

Is GayMatchmake in my city?

Probably. We work with clients in or near most major US metros.

What’s the success rate?

About 80% of the time we successfully match new clients between 8 and 12 matches.

How are introductions made?

Think of us as one part innovative dating concierge, one part cupid, and one part personal matchmaker. We spend time with all of your candidates which means we can answer any questions you have prior to connecting.

Is there a referral bonus for my friends?

Yes! If you refer someone who becomes a client, each of you receive $100 toward any matchmaking package. There’s no limit. Refer 10 new clients and receive $1,000 in credit!